CLEAR CHOICES. WRITTEN DOWN.
Make it a good night for everyone.
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Treat people like people
Be kind. No harassment, unwanted touching, slurs, threats, stalking, or pressure to disclose personal information. Respect names, pronouns, boundaries, and a clear no.
Participation is a choice
Nobody is pulled onto the stage or into a date without agreeing. A person may pass, pause, decline a match, or leave. A prize never includes another person’s consent.
Keep private things private
Do not share another participant’s contact information, questionnaire, private messages, or dating choices. Do not record or photograph people without permission. Follow the event camera rules.
Help us handle concerns
Tell the designated participant-care lead or another staff member if you feel unsafe or see a problem. Staff can pause an activity, separate people, or remove a participant. In an emergency, contact emergency services.
Show up able to choose
People must be able to understand and freely agree to participation. Staff may decline or stop participation when that is in doubt. Accessibility needs can be raised with the team privately.